Statistics revealed that 30% of students from grade 6 to 10 are involved in bullying on a regular basis in the United States. It is being viewed as one of the important contributors to violence involving the youth. Bullying can cause emotional and psychological effects on its victim.
Bullying is presented in different forms including verbal, physical, and emotional. The verbal form of bullying involves mocking, name-calling, and making jokes at the expense of another person. Physical bullying usually involves assaults, kicking, and pushing. The emotional bullying is commonly used on females. It involves spreading rumors or gossips about a certain individual.
Children who are bullied often show unusual behaviors at home. They tend to come home with cuts, scratches, and bruises as well as torn clothes and damaged things. These children often do not give logical explanations to their parents about their causes. Bullied children also experience bad dreams and social isolation. In some cases, these children suffer from depression and mood swings. Another sign that children are being bullied at school is their reluctance to go to school and lack of interest to study.
Bullying can have multiple effects on children. Bullied children may develop academic problems as well as experience psychological difficulties. There is also a greater chance that they may experience insecurity, lack of self-esteem, and anxiety. Bullied children find it difficult to socialize with others and to have a positive relationship with them. Serious cases of bullying can result to suicide attempt of the victim.
Parents who believe that their children are victims of bullying should immediately notify the school administrators about the incident.
Although investigating the incident takes time, it may eventually help children to be protected against this form of school violence. Parents should notify the right school officials who are assigned to deal with these issues.
Parents of bullied children should take their children’s care seriously.
They should never blame their children for the incident. It is advisable that parents encourage their children to develop hobbies and interests that would make them become resilient when dealing with difficult situations. They should also provide the necessary support, love, and encouragement needed by their children to recover from this experience. Parents of bullied children need to build a better communication between them and their children. This way, children are more likely to discuss with their parents all the problems that may physically and emotionally affect them.
Regardless of how the children are bullied, it can have serious effects on both the bullies and their victims. That is why it is important for parents to be more observant regarding the possible changes in their child’s behavior. Being bullied might have a long-term effect on its victims. School bullying can be prevented using effective strategies that both the school administrators and the parents can collaboratively perform.